Why do people forget what I said?

They rarely forget you. They never got one thing to hold.

Three reasons it slides off

Too many points. A list of five equal points leaves nothing first.

Memory keeps one core and lets the rest blur.

Big abstract words. “Improve,” “quality,” “going forward.”

Nothing to picture means nothing to keep.

Concrete words stick better. Paivio showed this in 1971.

No open question. A message that answers everything invites no chase.

A small gap makes the mind lean in. Loewenstein, 1994.

Watch it happen

This pair is written for this page. It is not a panel run.

Before

Quick update: the budget is tight, hiring is paused, the move is in June, and please keep receipts for everything this quarter.

After

Keep every receipt this quarter. The budget is tight, hiring is paused, and we move in June — but receipts are the one thing that cannot be fixed later.

What changed

Four equal facts became one core, said first and said twice.

Now there is a line to hold.

The fix, in one line

Say the one thing first. Say it in concrete words.

Let the rest support it, not compete with it.

These checks come from the SUCCESs checklist in Made to Stick.

By Chip Heath and Dan Heath. This site is independent.

The authors did not endorse it.

More questions

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Paste yours. Find the one line they keep.